Archive for March, 2008

Letter to a Demon Named Peggy (And to Other Black Women Who Hate Us)

Posted in Black Men, The Bridge - Darryl James with tags on March 31, 2008 by Gary Johnson

Darryl James     

The Bridge featuring Darryl James

Peggy, you poor deluded, self-hating wretch. I read your letter to Janks Morton and recognized it as the same message from Black women who hate Black men the nation over. It’s filled with misplaced blame, hatred and lies.

          How ironic that you begin by claiming to love Black men and then proceed to deride Black men in true man-hating form. You claim to love us but then present unfounded lies about our love for white women, our prison proclivities, homosexuality and the abandonment of our women and children.

          But you are also contradicting yourself by claiming to love us and then proceeding to claim that the film is filled with denial. In essence, you are saying that all of the myths about Black men are true.

          You claim to be ruled by Light, but your missive is an embrace of dark lies.

          You present a list of hate-filled LIES and not one scintilla of “evidence” to support them. You refer to “facts” and present none.

          I don’t know you, so I don’t know how much “education” you have or claim to have, but in my high school years, I learned that research means finding more than one source to prove out or disprove a theory. Your only source is your own tortured mind.

          I also learned that ignominious idiots use conjecture and lies to justify their propaganda.

          I’m glad that you brought up slavery, because moronic Feminatzis such as yourself are the worst of the mental slaves remaining. Your kind is the worst of any vestiges of House Niggerism remaining in our community.

          Before you reel from being given your deserving label of House Nigger, recall one of the symptoms as outlined by our beloved Malcom X: When the slave master says he is sick, the House Nigger asks: “We sick, boss?”

          This is what you are doing. Where racist whites once claimed that Black men lusted after white women, were lazy and shiftless and all the other things racists used to proclaim, those proclamations have been taken up by filthy Black female demons such as yourself.

          In addition to mental slavery to anachronistic racist stereotypes, you and filthy demons like you are also slaves to Feminist propaganda, which, I’m sure you don’t understand, isn’t even working for or embraced by most white women anymore. Ask Hilary Clinton, who is getting her ass kicked by young white women who know what she represents and fear it as much as white men fear it.

          Radical Feminism has gone too far, moving from women’s rights to the destruction of families and men by creating and promulgating sexist propaganda designed to demonize men and drive a wedge between the genders and families-intact and potential.

          The difficulties between the sexes across all racial lines are complex, but have less to do with who is guilty and more to do with what people are willing to believe, changes in how we socialize, the influence of the media and who is willing to accept responsibility.

          But silly stupid little girls like you want to boil it down to blaming Black men for the ills of the entire society, which means that while you crow about being strong and independent, you are still pretending to be the weak victims of men you believe to be beneath you.

          Contradictory, ignorant and evil.

          How dare you pretend that Black men fail to protect Black women and children?

          Instead of seeking whole and healthy relationships with Black men, greasy chicken-lipped slaves such as yourself force them out of your lives with lies, selfish demands and incessant berating and then claim to be a poor victim of abandonment.

          And when you have driven every possible good thing about Black men from your lives, you bitch and moan about being abandoned.

          You claim that Black women are loyal to Black men and that the reverse does not exist, yet if you survey white women, they will tell you that the most hateful things about Black men now come from Black women who crow from every mountainside about the sorry and sad Black man.

          On television shows, in books and magazines and in any small or large discussion, too many Black women are open and LOUD about their disdain for Black men, no matter who is listening.

          Currently, there is a trend for some Black women to seek refuge in white men.

          Who is disloyal?

          Let us return to the research you hateful demons refuse to do.

          First and foremost, the Civil Rights Movement gave women-white AND Black-their greatest boost since they were given the vote in a Constitutional amendment. The Voting Rights Act gave support specifically to women and Affirmative Action benefitted women-white AND Black–far more than Black men.

          It was more than just the right to sit at a lunch counter, it was about the right to stand up and be men-in order to protect Black women and children, which is why we saw signs that read: “I am a man!”

          As for our great love for white women, Black women are the only group who still claim that we love white women so much. Even white women are confused when they hear that lie!

          According to the US Census, 95% of all Black men who are married are married to BLACK WOMEN!! 95%, you liar!

          As for college attendance, your numbers are so very WRONG.

          According to the National Education Center, college enrollment is 55% female, but that is without respect to race. In other words, there are more white women in college than white men. It is NOT a Black phenomenon.

          According to the Journal of Blacks in Higher Education, in 2001, there were 1,095,000 Black women in college and 604,000 Black men, which is just under two to one, not ten to one, liar. And, Black women outnumber Black men by two million in the first place.

          We see the numbers of disparity get higher on Black college campuses (nowhere near your claim), which you demons love to point to, but that is indicative of nothing more than Black colleges’ inability to recruit Black students, which is witnessed by the active recruiting of Hispanics by these colleges who are seeing their enrollment plummet.

          Black women cheered for that liar Bill Cosby when he spoke at Spelman and told young Black women that Black men weren’t graduating. Meanwhile, across the street at Morehouse that same year, the largest graduating class of Black men was walking across that stage.

          And, let’s deal with Black Feminist lies about Black men and their children.

          First, we are not talking about teen mothers who are being abandoned. The largest group of women having children out of wedlock is women 18-24. In fact, according to the Census data, there are more women over thirty having children out of wedlock than women under eighteen.

          According to Census data, nearly 40% of the women who have children out of wedlock are living with a man. Nearly half of those pregnancies are INTENTIONAL.

          Dealing with child support, Welfare and single mothers, most of the women who are on child support and/or Welfare have multiple children, which means that they had a chance to stop the cycle, but CHOSE not to. There can be no Deadbeat Dads without women who willingly have unprotected sex with them-Deadbeat Moms.

          However, if you perform the most cursory research, you will find that most Black men assigned child support pay–69 % of all men actually pay child support.

          You will also find that a huge portion of the women assigned child support DO NOT PAY. 43% of all women fail to pay child support.

          You will also find that over 70% of the men assigned child support earn less than $10,000 per year. Only 4% of the men in arrears make above $40,000 per year.

          These FACTS are important because they fly in the face of the Feminatzi construct, which paints men, particularly Black men as Deadbeat Dads.

          These FACTS force spiteful man-haters to realize that a great portion of single motherhood is created by the single mothers.

          Perform even the smallest of studies, such as one by The Los Angeles Times and you will find that many of the men who earn so little are actually present in the lives of their children and that they contribute goods such as clothing, groceries, cribs, diapers and TIME to their children.

          What we do know is that single mothers applying for Welfare benefits are denied or given severely reduced benefits unless they name a father. Any father.

          According to that same LA Times study, a huge portion of the men who are assigned child support are not the actual fathers. Many of them were never even served and knew nothing of the child or the case until their licenses were suspended or wages garnished.

Yet, Feminist demons such as yourself would rather rage against Black men instead of a system which created dependence on the government, poor child rearing and ultimately human (Black males) fodder for the legal system and the privatized prison system.

If you cared for the women and children (some of whom grow up to become Black men), you would be concerned about the Black men who are being forced out of their lives by the Welfare system and by the single mothers themselves who have children without being financially prepared-which, yes, makes them DEADBEAT MOTHERS!

Stop hating the men who have protected the Black community from everything outside, but who have understandably not been able to fully protect the community from its latest, greatest threat-internal attacks and destruction, which now come from the hands of Black women more often than at the hands of some invisible white racist.

Like most hateful Black women who hate Black men, there is no blame for Black women in any of your missives. They are blameless, while you lay all of the blame at the feet of Black men.

You lied about Black men not looking Black women’s way, when my own surveys reveal the opposite:  Black women, in many cases, won’t even return a greeting of a Black man. In many cities, Black women don’t even greet EACH OTHER!!

You refuse to deal with the Black women who seek out thugs, who exchange sex for money, drugs, trinkets and trash, who, as single mothers, do everything possible to force men (including fathers, grandfathers and uncles) from the lives of Black children, based on their disdain for the fathers they CHOSE.

Many Black men will readily point to and chastise the sorry Black men who do abandon their families, but hateful blaming Black women like you refuse to acknowledge the Black women who contribute to single motherhood.

We hold these truths to be self-evident, otherwise, we would have to pretend that Black women are being raped by Black men whenever they find themselves pregnant. But we know they are willingly having sex and some of them are having sex with men they shouldn’t even be having conversations with.

There is responsibility on both sides.

We have many sicknesses in our community on both sides. But the latest and greatest sickness is among Black women who believe that only Black men are destroying our community.

I would deal with your other myths directly, but they are so ignorant that I can’t even respect them. Additionally, I know you don’t want the truth, you simply want to blame someone else for your responsibility and delivering facts and data will not stop your spreading of hatred and lies.

Any person who has taken Psychology 101 recognizes your pathology. You have been rejected, misused and/or abused by the men you CHOSE to allow in your life. Instead of taking any of the blame, you instead choose to indict all Black men for crimes you believe were committed against you. Internally, you find foundation for their rejection and so begin to hate yourself. Your self-hatred is then projected to the world and foisted upon the shoulders of Black men, who are now standing up and refusing to become the benevolent thug/whipping boy many women search for.

We just won’t put the cape on for women like you anymore, because to fly to your rescue means to destroy ourselves and young Black men.

          You revealed your pathology with your words: “When I see a black man who looks like he can afford to do the giving, instead of the taking, he’s with someone who doesn’t look like me, and I’m pretty darn cute.”

          That isn’t research or evidence. That is simply stark insight into your demented, narcissistic mind. You believe that everything is about you and you take it personally. And, then, you try to make it universal as though the crimes you perceive are committed by all men against all women, when really, its all in your twisted mind.

You have destroyed your hope, squandered your potential for happiness and want someone else to accept blame. You have done this as an individual and desire to make it a community event.

But you can not, because while you are loud and abrasive, your number is thankfully small.

          My happiness comes from the certain knowledge that you do not represent all Black women. In fact, while your kind is loud, I hold the belief that most Black women still have faith in Black men.

And, I harbor hope that Black men and Black women will be able to embrace truth and work together to move beyond this place of wrath and tears and avoid the looming horror of the shade that awaits us if too many think and act as you do.

No one is coming to save your kind, Peggy. Frankly, you don’t deserve to be saved. You refuse to save yourself or the Black children you claim to love and not even Superman (the white man you love so much) will fly to your rescue.

To be honest, so-called women such as yourself are so irreparably damaged and destructive that the greatest contribution you could make to the race is to kill yourself or at the very least willingly spay yourself and sequester yourself from Black humanity.

That is the only way you will stop spreading your hatred and lies about Black men whom you claim to love.

I’m certain you will take this as “evidence” of the Black man’s hatred for Black women, but this is all about ignorant, self-hating so-called Black women such as yourself.

Please take it personally.

Darryl James

A Black man who has loved.

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