Jimmy Graham– A True Baller

Raynard Jackson

That’s right, Jimmy Graham!  Most of the public is only recently becoming aware of the story of Jimmy Graham.  I find this very unfortunate, but true.

Jimmy Graham is a tight end for the New Orleans Saints football team.  As of this writing, he is the leading tight end in the N.F.L. in terms of receptions and touchdowns.  But most importantly, he is proving to be a true “baller” in the game of life!

He was born and raised in Goldsboro, North Carolina.  This 24 year old has scored big both on and off the field.  Just imagine, at the age of 11, being put in a parent’s car and then being dropped off at an orphanage.

Well, unfortunately for Graham, he doesn’t have to imagine this—this was his life.  Graham recounts the story of him being in the back seat of a van with his housemates from the orphanage and being beaten until his eyes were swollen shut.  He called his mother and asked her to pick him up and she simply hung up the phone.  Ouch!

After bouncing around from house to house, he was eventually taken into the home of his future adoptive mother, Becky Vinson during his high school years.

According to Graham, he and his biological mother are “slowly rebuilding a relationship, but it’s moving very slowly…I told her that I forgive her, but I won’t forget.”

Graham is a better man than I am.  I am very impressed with the way he presents himself on TV.  But, his attitude towards his mother goes to the type of character he has.  Isn’t it a shame that more people are aware of Beyonce’s pregnancy than Graham’s story?

Graham, who now stands 6’6” and 260 pounds, earned a basketball scholarship to attend the University of Miami (commonly referred to as “The U”).  He played football in his last year of school (along with four years of basketball).

He graduated in 2009 with a double major in marketing and management.  He then enrolled in graduate school so he could play one year of football.  During the 2010 NFL Draft, Graham was picked by the New Orleans Saints in the third round (95th overall pick).  He was signed to a four year, $ 2.5 million contract.

There is a lot more to this story, but because of space constraints, there is not enough room to write about everything; but just Google his name and you can read all the details of this fascinating person.

So, the next time you hear or read a negative story about a professional athlete, just think about Michael Vick or Jimmy Graham.

Most professional athletes are good, upstanding citizens.  Don’t allow the media to cloud your views because of a few bad apples.

Jimmy Graham’s story makes you cry, makes you angry, and makes you joyful.

You can’t help but cry when you think of the traumatic experience he suffered at the age of 11.  You can’t help but be angry at how an adult and a mother could subject her own child to such a life altering situation.  But, you can’t help but be joyful about how an 11 year old, traumatized kid could develop into such a wonderful, marvelous person!

This story is not about sports, it’s about life.  We all have faced or will face our own traumatic situation(s) in our life.  How we respond will determine the quality of our life.

There are not many people who I really want to meet in life, but Jimmy Graham is definitely one.  I want to know how he went from failing grades, to a basketball scholarship to a very prominent university (with a double major in marketing and management), finished in four years, then enrolled in graduate school so he could play one year of football, and then to excel on the professional level in football.  All this while overcoming the trauma of his youth.

Jimmy Graham, your life is truly a touchdown.  Whether you know it or not, you have already won the Super Bowl of life!

Raynard Jackson is president & CEO of Raynard Jackson & Associates, LLC., a D.C.-public relations/government affairs firm.  He is also a contributing editor for ExcellStyle Magazine (www.excellstyle.com), Freedom’s Journal Magazine (www.freedomsjournal.net), and U.S. Africa Magazine (www.usafricaonline.com).


6 Responses to “Jimmy Graham– A True Baller”

  1. This is a magnificent young man. But, remember, a single mother gave him what he needed: unconditional love, support and a confidence to believe he was worth it. His biological mother chose men and drugs over her child. He forgave her, but he will never forget, it is part of him. He owes that woman nothing else. And, I guarantee you if he wasn’t a famous athlete and wealthy, he would most likely never have heard from her again, except to get some $$$$$$$$$. A child’s love and respect has to earned, and his mom already has that – Vicky. I am a mother and all true and loving mothers’ know this.

  2. This article reads like it was written by a fifth grader…

  3. Joe Rubino Says:

    I agree with Ariadne 100%. It is a tale of two mothers.

    His biological mother could have come forward at any time from the time she abandoned Jimmy. Did she come forward when he was crying in a home with strangers? Did she come forward when he did well in high school? Did she come forward when he received a college scholarship? Did she come forward when he was sleeping on a bare mattress with no sheets in his college dorm? Did she come forward when she saw him playing basketball for the Canes on national TV? Did she come forward when he overcame all odds and graduated from college?

    The answer to all those questions is “no.” She came forward only after he signed a million dollar NFL contract. Meanwhile, his adoptive mother, Becky Vinson, took Jimmy in as a teen when she was also penniless, already caring for her old child, and at the ripe old age of 26. Now, in the moment of her greatest achievement, she shuns the limelight as well as the glory.

    Personally, I would find it very hard to forgive.

    • No he said his biological mother tried to reunite when he was in high school…not after he signed his multi million dollar contract. It’s hard to forgive either way.

  4. He was born and raised in Goldsboro, NC, not Greensboro, NC.

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