

By Gary A. Johnson
September 27, 2010
Last week’s public revelation of Jesse Jackson, Jr.’s extra-marital affair with a blond nightclub hostess which reportedly occurred a couple of years ago, has caused many columnists, talk show hosts and beauty shop and barbershop patrons to ask: Is it time for the Jacksons (Jesse, Sr. and Jesse, Jr.) and Bishop Eddie Long to just sit their asses down somewhere out of public view?
Speaking of Bishop Eddie Long, Jesse Jr., should have sent Bishop Long a nice “thank you,” note for taking over the scandal headlines. Whew! Did you see the photos of Bishop Long all muscled up in his Spandex tank top and shorts with a huge soaking tub in the background? Ouch!
The scandal associated with Bishop Long is that he appears to be a first class hypocrite. Bishop Eddie Long has been one of the most vocal public advocates against homosexuality and gay relationships. Disgraced Pastor Ted Haggard, who fell from grace a few years ago when a gay male prostitute exposed Haggard’s visits for both illegal drugs and sex. Haggard was on CNN defending Bishop Long. (Not sure if this is a helpful endorsement).
At last count, four young men have filed a lawsuit against Bishop Long claiming sexual coercion and misconduct. I don’t care what the Bishop is being accused of; there are many others who will support him regardless of the evidence.
I don’t know what it is about preachers and politicians, but it seems they get a longer leash than others who get in trouble. It seems as if you could have video evidence of a preacher or politician “doing wrong” and there will be a group of supporters who will attribute that video to a racist conspiracy, a government plot or some digital interference by Satan himself.
Men and women who like Jesse, Jr., and Bishop Long know that they have a core group of supporters who will not hold them accountable and blindly support them in the name of the Lord. This is why Bishop Long can address his congregation and essentially say nothing about the allegations against him. (I don’t want to hear this crap about his lawyer advised him not to say anything or try this case in the media). Bullshit! That has nothing to do with proclaiming your innocence.

I watched Bishop Long address his congregation yesterday. From what I saw Bishop Long DID NOT deny the allegations against him! Why didn’t Bishop Long state that he was not guilty of luring young men into sexual relationships?
Instead of proclaiming his innocence, Bishop Long said the following:
“Please hear this. Please hear this: I’ve been accused. I’m under attack. I want you to know, as I said earlier, I am not a perfect man. But this thing I’m gon’ fight. There have been allegations and attacks made on me. I have never in my life portrayed myself as a perfect man. But I am not the man that’s being portrayed on the television. That’s not me. That is not me.”
This partial explanation leads to more questions.
I want to make a point about POWER. The power bestowed upon some public figures is intoxicating. Many simply cannot manage the power that comes with their positions.
If the allegations against Bishop Long prove to be true, dude looks like a sexual predator. Thank goodness for him he lives in America. Bishop Long will have his day in court with the best lawyers money can buy, (unless the parties settle for an undisclosed amount of money and agree to a gag order sealing all the evidence).
Allegations that Rep. Jesse Jackson Jr. offered to raise $6 million for former Illinois Gov. Rod Blagojevich in exchange for an appointment to Barack Obama’s former Senate seat is potentially damaging to Jackson politically among his constituents. However, Jackson’s admission of having an extra marital affair with Washington, DC hostess Giovana Huidobro who Jesse, Jr., described as a “social acquaintance” have hurt his wife and family.
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- Giovana Huidobro
Sandi Jackson, Jesse Jackson, Jr.’s wife who is a Chicago Alderman, was interviewed by the Chicago Sun-Times. In her interview, she talked about her husband’s affair and said last week’s public release of the story opened up old wounds.
Sandi Jackson said that the affair is in the past and that she and Jesse, Jr., had the opportunity to receive therapy out of the public eye. Showing a bit of humor, Ms. Jackson referred to the blond nightclub hostess as “kryptonite in the world of the African-American woman,” a reference to the one property that can weaken the superhero Superman.
Ms. Jackson appeared to be quite candid in the interview, (a trait that her husband and Bishop Long should use) when she recalled her husband’s discloser of the affair to her. At a public gathering celebrating her birthday, with Jesse, Jr. in attendance, Ms. Jackson said: “’I put my foot knee-deep in his ass and he has been having a very difficult time sleeping peacefully since then.” (Spoken like a true sister).
When will the public, particularly “church folk” stop being so gullible and enabling politicians, sports figures, entertainers and others who hold responsible positions. Stop putting a microphone in front of Kanye West, Snoop Dogg and Gilbert Arenas. Many of these folks don’t know enough about current events outside of the isolated world that they live in. This is not to say that all rappers, entertainers and sports figures are not socially conscious, smart and literate. I’m not saying that—some are. Let’s not throw the public trust to someone because they can hit a ball and talk fast. Everyone makes mistakes. No one is perfect. Some public figures actually learn their lessons and return to society as better people doing great things. Case in point—Michael Vick. Two years ago Vick was ending a two-year absence from football after serving time in jail for spearheading a dog fighting ring. Today, the NFL Quarterback is the “toast of the town” in the NFL and Philadelphia for his play. Michael Vick is one of the top rated Quarterback in the league and the “must see” player on the field.
Before I get off the topic of being gullible, I’ve noticed a few disgraced white pastors resurfacing on BET? Many would argue that religion has no color, however, this writer sees almost everything through a racial prism. Albeit, the shows featuring these disgraced pastors are broadcast late at night, I find it curious these pastors are getting their “second chance” in the black TV community.
When will we as a community come together and hold “leaders” accountable for being responsible to those that support them? No wonder good school teachers, nurses, community organizers and volunteers are “pissed” about their salaries and the influence they have in the community.
I’m especially sick of these preachers and politicians who seem to be in the spotlight more than any other group. I’m particularly offended by the hypocrisy of it all. People tend to look up to preachers for spiritual guidance and advice and to politicians because they hold the key to funding sources that can affect people’s livelihood. To abuse that power is wrong. To abuse that power against children is immoral and criminal.
What can we do to protect our children and our senior citizens against people who have abused their power, the public trust and pretty much just lost their way?
Bishop Long is a senior pastor at church with over 25,000 members. Jesse Jackson, Jr., is a Congressman in the United States Congress. Inherent in their positions is the trust of others, many of whom are less fortunate. If their supporters vote to keep these men in their positions, then I guess those supporters deserve whatever comes their way as a result of their vote.
For the record, Bishop Eddie Long and Jesse Jackson, Jr. are the latest guys making headlines. There have been others before them. Jesse Jackson, Sr., President Bill Clinton, Bill Cosby, Marion Barry, Julius Erving, Michael Jordan, Tiger Woods, Jimmy Swaggart, O. J. Simpson, Kwame Kilpatrick have all been part of public scandal. The sad thing is that there will be more notable people who will follow.
What do you think? Leave a comment below.
Gary A. Johnson is the Founder & Publisher of Black Men In America.com a popular online magazine on the Internet and the Black Men In America.com Blog. Gary is also the author of the new book “25 Things That Really Matter In Life.”
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